One simple thing that you can do to today to have less stress in your life (and maintain healthier relationships with women) is understand how your brain works.All men (and women) have a masculine side, and a feminine side.It is necessary to have both a masculine and a feminine.

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This depolarization, again while a healthy step to get away from the archaic system that penalized the feminine, caused mass dissatisfaction in couples’ intimate relationships.

Instead of polarity, couples had too much similarity.

The lines were blurred and the relationships suffered.

Sexual attraction can only occur in the space between two people, and that space had narrowed significantly.

As it currently stands in the modern day developed world, there has been a large shift towards feminizing men and minimizing masculine energy overall. Sexual polarity in the developed world was extremely polarized and feminine energy was thought of as less valuable before the sexual revolution of the 1970′s.

During this decade of the hippie, women burnt their bras and men grew their hair long and got in touch with their emotions.

In other words, the two poles of masculine and feminine energy were DE-polarized.

Instead of the two plot points clocking in at 0 and 100 on the continuum, they were registering as 40 and 60.

Am I now going to suggest that the pendulum needs to swing back in the other direction back to a pre-1970′s polarization? As I mentioned earlier, every being has a masculine and feminine energy.

Just like a yin and yang, it is best when one partner is 90% masculine and 10% feminine, and the other partner is the opposite.

If you are one of the many men who feel like you sometimes have difficulty aligning yourself with your goals, your passion or purpose in life, or feeling ‘like a man’… The way that the male brain works we do much better focusing on one specific task than bouncing around between ideas.